single? dating? engaged? married? alive?

i URGE you to watch this

click on the link. then you want to click on the third one called SACRED SEARCH.

this is the recording from the Sacred Search talk by Gary Thomas that was here in town on 2/22. after having gone and heard it myself, 

i am now URGING you to watch it now. 

seriously. 

and ask the questions it prompts. examine your motives. and then take the according action.

 i will be the first to say i did NOT have the correct motive for marrying and now experience the consequences that come with that. 

PLEASE watch this.